**Obituary for Wendy**
Wendy was an extraordinary woman—intelligent, kind, and deeply compassionate. Her brilliance spanned many fields, from plants and animals to astronomy and politics. Her boundless curiosity led her to become profoundly knowledgeable in every subject she explored. A dedicated educator, Wendy tutored students in the sciences and was cherished and respected by all who knew her.
During the COVID-19 pandemic, Wendy's relentless pursuit of understanding saw her engaging with leading doctors, virologists, and politicians. Her compassion extended to every living being, and she had a special bond with animals—domestic pets and wild creatures alike. Over the years, Wendy rescued fish, birds, squirrels, and cats, all of whom felt her love and care.
Wendy's passions included photography, gardening, horses, and astronomy. Her love for space and Star Trek was boundless. She followed every space mission with enthusiasm, often rising in the middle of the night to witness the latest developments. It feels profoundly fitting to honor Wendy's final wish by sending her into space, where she always dreamed of going. When I gaze up at the night sky and see a twinkling star, I'll know it is Wendy, finally following her dream. I am incredibly proud to honor her in this way.
**A Love Unexpected**
Wendy and I were introduced by mutual friends who were eager to play matchmaker. Neither of us was actively seeking a romantic relationship at the time, and we approached the meeting with reservations. Our first interaction was brief—a nod when introduced—at a dinner hosted by her mother.
Our connection grew through our shared role in caring for our nephew, Jared. We began babysitting him together and enjoyed these outings so much that they became a regular occurrence. As we spent more time together, our bond deepened, leading to dinners and spontaneous sightseeing flights.
Eventually, our feelings for each other blossomed into love. Despite our initial resistance to romance, it became clear that we were falling deeply for each other. We began dating, and even when we briefly considered taking a break, we couldn’t bear to be apart.
This marked the end of my bachelorhood and her spinsterhood. When my job took me to another city, Wendy joined me in house hunting. We found a home we both loved—a true love nest for the next 42 years.
Our friends and family often commented on how well we complemented each other. Our bond remained strong, nurturing our love through life’s ups and downs. We supported each other through illness, offered comfort, and delighted in spontaneous gestures of love, such as giving flowers “just because.” Wendy was intelligent, knowledgeable, and achieved so much that made me proud. Our shared wicked sense of humor and deep trust kept our relationship vibrant and joyful.
When Wendy's death became imminent, we spoke of her soaring with the eagles, reminiscent of Jonathan Livingston Seagull striving for a higher existence.
I love and miss her dearly. Though the light of my life has dimmed, I find solace in the stars, where her shining light remains.
I love you, Wendy.
Until we meet again.
